I fell in love with the Philippines in 2007 on a month-long holiday and settled in Boracay in 2008. My two daughters are half Filipino, born in the Philippines, and raised on the shores of Boracay White Beach. There are many reasons to love the Philippines and its people. Here are mine.
A family-oriented nation
I grew up in a very family-oriented environment but not many people around us were the same. I was often the only one truly enjoying family time and looking forward to big family reunions. Seeing Filipinos being so connected to their family and their roots made me feel understood. No one thinks it is strange that my parents, now retired, spend four months a year in my home in Boracay, while my children and I visit them two to three months a year during the European summer.
I could never afford such a life in France
As a working mom of two, being able to afford full-time help is priceless. My kasambahay (house help) and I have been living and working together for seven years and have truly become family. I am beyond lucky since we are very close: We cook together and enjoy the same music. I would never be able to have this kind of life if not for her helping me with the chores and the children. It is a real blessing to have her in my life! I get to spend time with the children or go out for dinner with friends without worrying. Thank you to all the hard-working kasambahays out there!
My children get to experience a different childhood
Boracay is a small and tight community. Having our children grow up in such an environment is empowering. They live a life away from the temptation of shopping and too many electronics. Their favorite activities are climbing coconut trees, swimming in Boracay’s clear waters, making huge sandcastles with their friends, and inventing great stories while sitting on top of parked paraws, the local sailing boats.
The power of the community is remarkable
I personally find that in Europe, people generally keep to themselves; usually, you don’t even know your neighbors. In the Philippines, though, the community is front and center of many things. I have experienced some challenging times like typhoons or the pandemic in the Philippines, and it was reassuring how the community would come together during or after these hardships. From checking on each other, lending a hand to your neighbor, or preparing food and relief goods to distribute to the less fortunate, the culture of sharing is strong and heartwarming.
The positive attitude of people is inspiring
Let’s be honest, I come from a country where people complain a lot! We are famous for it. The attitude of Filipinos should be a lesson for many countries abroad. Hard working people are doing long hours without complaining, people working in the service industry always have the most genuine smiles on their faces, and Filipinos are usually extremely accommodating and ready to help.
The warm weather is always a bonus
Living in Boracay for 15 years now is such a privilege. We get to live at a slow pace, following the movement of the sun and the rhythm of the ocean. I don’t miss the hassle of needing a summer outfit, a separate winter wardrobe, and some mid-season items to fit the weather. Sure, it can be fun to dress up depending on the seasons, but it can get expensive and space-consuming. Things are simpler in the Philippines! Living in Boracay, I wear summer clothes all year round. You just need a light jacket when the rains come or if the wind blows too hard.
The food is comforting
The first time I came to the Philippines, I read in a guide that Filipino food was not interesting. I beg to disagree! When I arrived, I enjoyed great seafood, the best pork dishes, and all the fun that comes in a boodle spread or a community potluck. The many influences of Filipino food are interesting and bring different flavors to the table. I love seeing how Filipino cuisine is leveling up and starting to get more international recognition.
Filipinos are proud of their roots
I think others can learn a thing or two from Philippine patriotism. I enjoy seeing how Filipinos are proud of where they come from. Since my children are half Filipino, I am glad they will always carry this pride wherever they go. I’m also always excited to meet Filipinos abroad; it feels like an instant connection.
The beauty of the country is breathtaking
With so many islands, the Philippines can boast about some of the most breathtaking landscapes! As much as I will love the fine white powdery sand of Boracay forever, I was blown away by the black volcanic sand of Baler. The ocean of coconut trees in Siargao is a wonder, and the smell of the pine trees of Baguio reminds me of Christmas at home. From the sea to the mountains and volcanos, the whole country is a natural wonder that never ceases to impress me!
Everyone feels connected
Sometimes, the whole country seems like one big family to me. Everyone is connected in one way or another. Sports teams, schools or universities batches, family names, and provincial roots—there will always be a connection to make with everyone you meet. The concept of “third-degree separation” is proven true in the Philippines! And, drawing connections has become a habit whenever I meet someone new.
Everything is possible
If there’s a will, there’s a way! I enjoy seeing how Filipinos find their way around everything! Napping while balancing on a scooter, fitting an entire family on a scooter (which I became a professional at!), playing basketball barefoot, fixing your broken slippers with a nail. I have seen, learned, and mastered countless plan B tricks in the Philippines that make my life funnier and less stressful.
